I know people who are so stubborn, they cannot see the leaves for the trees. Or forest for the trees, what ever way you know the saying.

You control freak, yes I was this nut bag once upon a time.

Really, who was I helping, myself or my family or God? None of the above would be correct, what was oblivious to me was the devil had me fooled.

Yep, correct. He had me thinking that if I stood my ground on many things that I was better than the rest, now this doesn’t cover all but certain things in my life.

And all I can say again is, you idiot.

Stubbornness is the root of your problem, stop right now. Change for the better, for being alone is a very lonely place to be.