Do you ever spend the time, trying to view things in a different way to what you would automatically do?

I have learned over the years that you react in a certain way to things, its like when I knock myself. I was taught that you instantly go to anger.

But was that right, no it wasn’t, most of the time my parent was just angry at herself or frustrated, but it taught me the wrong way.

I am learning to flip the switch and make things different in my life. Because if I meet my future husband then I cannot repeat the past.

Interesting how time can make you wiser than before.