This is something I struggle with, why, I have dealt with many people who think, they can lie to me and I will be none the wiser.

Well, this little duckie knows and sees your lies.

Why has this come about, recently a close person lied to me, and I know my father is not having any of it. I can warn them, catch them out and say something, but it doesn’t stop and for that they have to learn a lesson, that only the father can give.

I always think this way, you’re not just lying to me, your lying to the father and that is not on.

This has struck me because of the part in the bible where it says, if you hate your brother then you have lied to the Lord.

Now, I had to very much take this and digest it, then I came up with a peaceful resolution. I love my brother for the person he could have been, not the one I had experienced and that grants me to love, but to cut through any bad energy.

It’s not easy in any way shape or form to step into this arena, but when my father speaks, I have to find a way.

I extend this to my sister, I can love her, but I know that is as far as it goes.

I am a person that if I love you, I am all in, if you break my trust, your tolerated, if you lie, to me or think I am a puppet in your game and do the worst imaginable, I’m out for life.

I understand so much of my mum now, it takes time to understand, but I get it…