I was just sitting here, as its a better day to be able to sit (I have arthritis in my lower back-tail bone and front pelvis) this is to explain why sitting becomes unbearable.

I lost my level of faith, yes I have to write it down to admit it, me who was so fired up about the father, had a lull in faith. Why, I got so consumed by past life, as I was allowed to feel every emotion, that was quashed, all that long ago.

You see, I was told to act that everything was fine and dandy, well, I found out that once your allowed to feel it, it hits you hard, I have had really bad anxiety, depression and panic attacks like never before. I had acted for so long, I forgot how to go through the process of NORMALCY in emotions.

So, that test came along and I felt like I was going to fall off the wagon, as one would say. I need to say this, because if anyone has been there, knows it can become all consuming.

And, then I couldn’t do anything, I had not lost the belief that the father would bring me through, but boy, was it the hardest thing to do. I know this, I am not done yet, I have to manage how to deal with the simplest of tasks, like appointments.

I have learned one thing, you never know or can explain, how it feels, or how to go from day to day. I knew many years ago about people who might just give up, because it is really hard.

But one thing that has held me is this, the time he spoke to me, when I was a child and broken. The other thing that has just come to mind is this, he will never leave you or forsake you, just HOLD ON.

If the powers that be knew, what damage domestic violence, sexual assault, living with a pedophile etc can do to your mental state, they would make changes, today, but you really haven’t got a clue, until you have lived it.

For anyone who has felt this way or is struggling, know he has you, just breath, just live in the next 10 minutes, then do the next. Cut your day into bits, laugh at your struggles, why because they belong to the enemy and he can have it all…