What…

I was flicking through the channels and some revolting comment was made “put a muzzle on your woman”.

Now, this beef head as I would call him in the moment, for some reason has been taught, that a woman is of lesser value, when without women, where would he be and where on earth did his brain get wired to think the wrong way.

So, after I huffed and puffed something struck me, some boys are led to believe there is such a thing as a bro code.

What on earth, I would call it the idiots club, I am being honest here, I had to watch the episode, why, I wanted to see what was said to rebuke him. I saw a group of men, look down, look around the room, but all trying to avoid eye contact and answering the question put to them.

Then I dug deeper, why was this hitting me in the spot of zero to wanting to get in their face, (I am being honest with how I felt).

I waited a few days, then I got it, most MALES have not been fathered, yes they may have a male in their life, but whats missing, a man’s leadership. A man, would shut it down, stand up for the comment to be quashed and settle the situation, instead of trying to hide from the hard task, or be mature.

So realising that, a male is not a man, a man is not a man because he has fathered a child or is of a certain age. He is the one, who stands when others, do not. There is a huge difference between a male and a man, or a giant matured boy.

He is the one who hears the comment and or actions and stops it in its tracks, he will not do it because of friendship or alpha males etc. He will stand for the right to dignity of everyone and lead the way.

Men need to realise, its the same with women, I will say what needs to be said, but I will not do it, because I want a certain outcome, most of the time I will wait for the (what do you think comment). There are women, who manipulate, play the game and will go along with gossip etc, because they too have not been taught, or come to the realization, you have to step up, you have to step out and make change, and not sit back and whinge or whine.

You need to realise, what your doing and make a choice, to be the exception, and not the rule.

So, as you have read this, what is your outcome, are you a follower, are you a joiner, are you a passenger, or are you capable of standing, when others will not or cannot…..